Being a mother is like being at school you learn and learn and continue learning how to raise those little bundles, the kindergarten part is when you are a first-time mom you are just starting out the mommy school, learning the basics about the newborn and how to take care of it, you know in school it can be hard if you don't learn, revise and try to understand what you've been taught, same with motherhood you have to make time and learn, try to understand and apply what you think will work for you and your family continue learning and don't stop, you will find yourself flowing smoothly, and the best thing is to follow up from people who have been in those high grades already, what I mean is someone who has been a mom for a long time and that first person is your mother, I learned most of the things from my mother, and other people who are like mothers to you and the online world where you don't take everything, but make sure you take what you think is going to work for you.
You know when you go to school and say school is hard, well it normal to see things hard when you hear people saying it hard, and it like a child just starting school and telling them school is hard and what going to happen they will always see or feel that it hard even though it is easy if they stick to their studies and learn, same with parenting you hear a lot of moms saying, parenting is hard and well, other moms get into motherhood with that mindset, and it definitely going to be hard to master it with that negative mindset, in motherhood, there are things that you won’t understand but be willing to learn because there are mothers out there who experience those things and you can learn a thing or two on how to deal with them it the same at school if you don't understand a sum for math, you have to ask your teacher or find someone who is good at math that can help you understand it. and be able to do it on your own, the more you do the sum the more you learn or understand how to do it, same with motherhood the more I learn about it the more I understand how to deal with it and enjoy it in a happy manner.
I can't say that there is a stage that you actually finish your journey of being a mom and learning, because when you are a grandma, you are still a mother, teaching and giving advice to young mothers, and that advice is so important because it helps mothers become better moms, the most important part is that you learn step by step to be a mother is not just a once-off course but it a forever learning course, you are always learning even when your kids are growing up you learn each milestone.
It is important to know you, cant master, it in one day but step by step, you will get there and please don't take every negative thing that you hear about motherhood, and don't rush to get to those who are on top of it already because well it a long journey and you don't want to ask yourself why can’t I do it, you can definitely do it but it takes time to understand, adjust and love and just enjoy every minute of it.
Apply the things that you think can help you little by little and see if they work for you, 1 step at a time, if it doesn't work try another way, because the goal is to be a happy mother with a happy baby, and you don't just give up and say I will never get it, you keep on pushing and you will be on top of motherhood, not motherhood being on top of you, believe me, you don't want it to be on top of you.
By Polite.K
LOVE AND JOY TO YOUR FAMILY, IT'S ONLY IN CHRIST JESUS!..
