The most amazing thing is raising those little bundles with your partner, It is the most amazing moment having that new member in the family especially if it was only you and your partner things start changing for the better, the connection start to get really strong knowing that you have this most adorable little whose relying on both of you on everything and he can’t tell you anything, you have to figure things out on your own what he needs.
It so amazing am writing this post and am smiling because those moments always ring in my mind and they make me smile, we know there are grannies we love granny, the are aunties and uncle we love them too, the list goes on and on with the relatives, yes we sometimes need our beautiful relative to help us with our kids but not to raise them for us, that our role as a parent, but I found it really amazing to raise them with your partner, it really builds up your relationship in terms of communication and other things and the relationship becomes stronger, I know we have to go to work and do other things but having that moment as a family every day is so wonderful and very important, talking with the little one and seeing that his trying to communicate and can’t communicate in words but those signs actually help a lot.
So it can be stressful when you are a first-time mom to take care of the baby, you need someone to support you and help you, for me the most helpful thing was to actually communicate with my husband and that is what helped, I'll tell him all about the baby and explain the signs, the whole baby dairy, what he wants when he does this and that, and we raised our kids on our own with no help and we laugh a lot looking at them now thinking they know it all if you want to know more about those cries, click here.
so moms raise your kids with your partner and it’s okay to get that advice about babies from granny and other people you trust but most importantly do the parenting with your partner, if you cant do it with your partner for some reason that okay.
ENJOY YOUR LOVELY FAMILY!!
By Polite.K
LOVE AND JOY TO YOUR FAMILY ONLY IN CHRIST JESUS!!..
